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The Contest is Over! Shirley
Cheng
Sponsored by:
The
Jewel from Heavenly Father Heavenly
Father bestowed the most precious jewel upon That
diamond is my beloved mother, Juliet Cheng, a My
mother has done all this while battling her own She is
as gentle as a summer's breeze, but the lioness Shirley Author's
bio: Ozzie and Harriett, Ward and June Cleaver, and the Andersons
of Father Knows Best, these were the television parents I remember from
my childhood, but, they weren’t like my
parents. I thought they were totally fiction, until I found
them, in the flesh, in my in-laws. My parents are loving and supportive, but that was where the
similarity ended between the make believe parents of early TV land.
Those parents, and my in-laws, were middle class and white collar. My
parents were working class - a janitor and a cleaning lady.
We lived in an urban inner-city, my in-laws and the TV families lived
in small towns or suburbs, and my parents
were black, not white like the TV families, and my in-laws.
When I met my husband in 1969 the world was changing, but
race was still an issue. Martin
Luther King was assassinated the year before, and the Weathermen and the Black
Panthers were in their heyday. But,
such radical elements meant little to me.
I was a product of Detroit’s inner city and lived at home while I
worked my way through college. In September 1969 I enrolled in graduate school
in Pittsburgh on a teaching fellowship. I
was achieving the American dream and there was little room for radical
politics. I kept a low profile, worked hard and was overjoyed to be finally
living in dormitory like a regular college student.
Therefore, I was personally surprised when two months after I met
Roger, I was seriously thinking of marrying him.
Marrying this man would have meant that people would have noticed me
and I didn’t want to be noticed, just to succeed. Roger WAS from the home of
the Nelsons, Cleavers and Andersons, his great-grandfather had actually
changed his name from Anderson to Blomquist before he immigrated to the US
from Sweden. My in-laws were as traditional as they come.
They were suburban middle class. Vic
was a chemist for the government and Mildred was a homemaker.
Little sister Linnea was the cutest little sweet tempered blonde
teenager. Having their son and
brother hook up with me was not an exactly welcoming situation.
There were some tears, but there was also genuine Christian acceptance. When we married two years later, my in-laws invited their
friends and relatives, they paid for the rehearsal dinner and they were
perfect hosts, to my family and friends of factory workers, nurses and clerks.
Mildred and Vic shared many significant events with my
husband and me. During three
months of bed rest with our first child, they were there making a Sunday
brunch for our eleventh anniversary. Two
years later they were there again, volunteering to take care of our daughter
when we took a trip to visit friends in London. Our youngest daughter was even
born on her grandfather’s birthday - 76 years later.
Throughout the years, my in-laws provided parental love,
support and much joy. They
treated us and our daughters equally as they treated my sister-in-laws husband
and her daughters. I have never
had the desire to make any jokes about in-laws because mine were precious
beyond description. Today almost
six years after their passing, I still rejoice that they were a part of my
life. So, were television families of the fifties real? With a resounding North Dakota Swedish accent I say “You betcha” - they were my in-laws! Barbara Author's bio: Here are the contest rules:
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